Domestic Violence

Domestic Violence: When one partner in an intimate relationship exerts a pattern of power and control through manipulation and fear over the other partner.

WATCH OUT FOR ESCALATING DANGER SIGNS:

  • Accidentally hurting the feelings of loved ones (failure of compassion)
  • Purposely hurting feelings of loved ones (withholding compassion)
  • Criticizing personality (instead of behavior)
  • Attacking self-esteem
  • Insulting, name calling
  • Controlling, manipulating
  • Isolating, discouraging friends
  • Coercing, threatening, intimidating
  • Destroying property
  • Threatening or harming pets
  • Grabbing, pushing, shoving, slapping, or throwing objects at victim
  • Slapping with an open hand
  • Kicking, burning, biting, punching
  • Hitting with an object or closed fist
  • Beating up (pinned down, repeated blows)
  • Threatening with a weapon
  • Severe injury
  • Death

WHAT CAN VICTIMS DO?

  • Call your local law enforcement (Dispatch: 317.346.6336)
  • Call 2-1-1 (Number for Domestic Violence)
  • Go to a shelter or other safe place
    • For help, call the Turning Point Domestic Violence Crisis Line at 1.800.221.6311. This service is available 24 hours a day 7 days a week
    • For help, call Indiana Coalition of Domestic Violence at 1.800.332.7385. This is a 24 hour hotline.
    • Visit Indiana Coalition of Domestic Violence's website for more resources: www.icadvinc.org
  • Evict the batterer (if he/she is not on the lease or mortgage)
  • Restrict visitation with kids
  • Get an order of protection

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A REMINDER FOR PARENTS:

  • Franklin schools have counselors that can help parents with children that may be dealing with issues. They have resources to help.
  • Contact your school's counselor for more information.

OBTAINING A PROTECTIVE ORDER:

Contact Stephanie Cunningham of the Turning Point Domestic Violence Services Franklin Office. They can answer questions about and assist in completing the protective order, free of charge.

Stephanie Cunningham

Community Services Director

PO Box 268

Franklin, Indiana 46131

Phone: 317.736.8666

stephaniecunningham@turningpointdv.org

24/7 Crisis Helpline: 1.800.221.6311 (Anonymous Hotline)

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FACTS ABOUT DOMESTIC VIOLENCE:

  • 40-60% of men who abuse women, also abuse children so REPORT DOMESTIC ABUSE!
    • Children who live in violent homes often exhibit signs of low self-esteem, poor impulse control, depression, stress, fear of the abuser, contempt or pity for the abused parent, they often feel responsible for the abuse, aggression (in boys) and passivity (in girls), high risk for school absences, alcohol & drug abuse, sex, running away, lying stealing, frequently contemplates/attempts/threatens suicide, confused sexual identity due to faulty role models, and a continuation of family violence patterns in adulthood.
  • The most dangerous time for a domestic violence victim is the first 60-90 days of separation from the batterer.
    • 75% of all calls to police and the Emergency Room occur after separation.
    • Separation is dangerous because the batterer loses control of the victim!